FRIDAY FOURTEEN ISSUE 85

July 16, 2021
This week: A fascinating deep dive into why we develop intense one-sided relationships with famous people on the internet, the best memes of 2021 (so far) explained, why it’s time to free the boob (amen), how the photo dump took over Instagram, the psychology behind why we’re obsessed with ugly shoes, a Jason Sudeikis profile in GQ that will send you swooning, and more.

The 2017 New Yorker short story Cat Person has gone viral again – but for an entirely different reason

Legally Blonde was released 20 years ago, and here’s a fascinating oral history that will satisfy everyone who practiced the bend and snap in their childhood bedrooms

Can I sit here? Thoughts about seating at home, at restaurants and being a good friend

The best memes of 2021 (so far) explained

GQ’s August cover of Jason Sudeikis (once known for portraying jocular blowhards, Sudeikis has found himself playing a sensitive soccer coach in smash hit Ted Lasso) had us swooning and laughing, all at once (and if you’re nor sure what all the fuss is all bout, check out Ted Lasso’s Twitter account – we promise it’s worth it)

Why it’s time to free the boob (amen)

Last week, 14-year-old Zalia Avant-garde became the first African American to win the National Spelling Bee (she’s a Guinness Book of World Record holder too 🤯). These great pieces in the New York Times and The Conversation break down why Zaila’s win is so important

How the photo dump took over Instagram (“If one photo says a thousand words, a photo dump is practically a novel”)

London friends! For the first time in history, Queen Liz has opened up the gates to Buckingham Palace to the hoi polloi and, for a small sum, you can meander unaccompanied through the gardens of Buckingham Palace and picnic on the lawn. BYO Pret sanger

There’s a new lifestyle in China called ‘lying flat’ and it’s making the country’s ruling Communist Party realllll mad

A fascinating deep dive into why we develop intense one-sided relationships with famous people on the internet (“Performers speak to us conversationally, they let us know about their personal lives, they reveal what are framed as their vulnerabilities. The content is often in domestic settings: in bedrooms, at computers, among family and friends — informal and unpredictable, like real friendship.”)

The future of the handshake (RIP)

The psychology behind why we’re obsessed with ugly shoes

We loved this behind-the-scenes piece from Curtis Sittenfeld about the success she experienced after her debut novel Prep, and how she moved past the dreaded second book slump to write the phenomenally popular American Wife (“‘I thought Democrats wouldn’t read it because it was about a Republican”)

What we’re eating, listening to, reading and watching this week:

LIZZIE —>
Watching:
Jimmy Barnes singing Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow from his living room with his family. Before Sydney lockdown he even had Daryl Braithwaite over to cover Daydream Believer
Listening: EquityMates podcast, a beginner’s guide to investing
Drinking: My new favourite tipple, a gin & sonic (gin with half tonic and half soda and just perfect). Thanks to Jess for passing this one on ️

VANESSA —>
Cooking:
This anything-goes-tomato-tart from one of my favourite food newsletters Dinner: A Love Story by Jenny Rosenstrach
Watching: Season 2 of This Way Up just dropped on Stan and there’s my Friday night sorted
Listening: This podcast from the ABC that combines yoga and meditation set to soothing classical music (thanks to Triple J’s Hack reporter Ange McCormack for this rec!)