FRIDAY FOURTEEN ISSUE 107

January 21, 2022
This week: Salacious stories about sex after seventy, how Tumblr became popular again by being obsolete, 22 films to look forward to in 2022, a beautiful piece about getting sober and piecing together a community in the middle of the pandemic, what being asymptomatic *really* means, and more.

How do you explain to friends, family and even strangers that you don’t drink (or not drinking right now?) This writer shares her struggle to find the right words

These salacious stories about sex after seventy will be one of the best things you read all week, promise

Still got your Christmas tree up or wishing it was? This is for you

A long, but brutally honest essay on getting paid in the influencing industry (“The frustrating thing about “influencer” culture you don’t see from the outside is that we are essentially self-producing commercials for huge brands. And to do that you need to hire photographers, videographers, assistants, etc. Those people expect to be paid pretty much immediately while the brands paying you to produce content seem to have no urgency whatsoever as to when they’ll pay you.”)

Here’s what being asymptomatic really means

To mark five years since the demise of Vine (RIP 🙏), NBC News has written a fascinating series about former Vine stars, including Vine-then-YouTube star Christine Sydelko, who rose to internet fame and left it all behind, logged off and never looked back

All hail Tumblr, the only website that became popular again by being obsolete

Actually helpful advice for overcoming failure (“You did your very best, and it simply wasn’t good enough. This kind of failure is especially painful, and can be hard to shake. So what do you do now? You can just hunker down and hope that time will heal the wound. But perhaps you would prefer to deal with your pain and actively manage it.”)

22 films to look forward to in 2022

Wait, why are hyperlinks blue?

A love letter to picking up and giving up habits

Diet culture isn’t dead, we’re just not calling them ‘diets’ anymore

A beautiful piece about getting sober and piecing together a community and a survivable life in the middle of the pandemic

Annddddd…. what 2022 feels like so far, us every day when talking to our friends, a solid case for making cookies without chocolate chips, TikTok is testing a ‘Stories’ feature and Instagram is testing creator subscriptions in the US, this Twitter advice thread is everything, apparently GIFs are uncool now 🙃, love this cosy Harlem apartment, a low-stakes whodunnit straight from our own hometown, what name do you want on the order, German mum crunch, do this before accepting your next job offer, how to let go, and we challenge you to play Absurdle without throwing your phone out the window (here’s how to play)

What we read, listened to, watched and ate this week…

Lizzie —>

Listening: Gang of Youths new tune in the wake of your leave

Customising: All my jumpers with with embroidered depictions of family pets
Giggling: If you’re a fan of Grand Designs, No Context Grand Designs is worth a scroll

Vanessa —>

Eating:
I’ve tried to make tomato egg so many times without success but this week (and aided by this TikTok) I’m determined to crack it
Reading: Malibu Rising by Taylor Jenkins Reid. It’s like Gossip Girl but set in Malibu in the 80s and it’s frothy and silly and exactly what the doctor ordered
Watching: Cheer season 2. Draaaaaaama!